Quiche and Old Friends

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This week, three longtime friends and I met for breakfast at a newish café. We’ve been getting together for at least twenty-five years – no one remembers exactly how long – and I guess you might say we’re “set in our ways.” But things have begun to change.

For many years, we got together at a diner midway between our homes, each of us ordering our favorite breakfast special – the #2, two eggs with bacon and toast was most popular. Then the business started going downhill. It changed owners and the food and service weren’t as good as we were used to. We tried a new spot down the road, owned by a young couple, and were pleased at the fresh nutritious breakfasts and the friendly service at a reasonable price. All natural, nothing frozen, local produce, because we were now into the twenty-first century and conscious of healthy eating. Fast forward just a couple of years – and I do mean fast –  and the couple opened a branch farther away in a sweet little town. It sits beside a creek in an old mill reclaimed for office space and our new breakfast spot.

The food is upscale and we’ve changed with the times. Instead of the bacon and eggs special, we have a choice of quiche and fruit cup, scrambler of the day, lattes and cappuccinos and other good stuff that feels so trendy. We sit at a high-top table and don’t mind climbing into the chairs because we have other things to complain about: our aches and pains, to be sure, and our spouses’ health issues. We share concerns about life and politics and church activities. And we’re still the same friends who love and support each other. We’ve had our problems: marital strife, job loss, deaths of parents, diseases and broken bones. The hassle of  “customer service” is a frequent topic.

So why do we still meet? Yes, it’s therapeutic to vent, but even better, we share and rejoice in our joys. One friend moved to Florida a few years ago, but she joined us this morning on her way to her summer home in the Adirondacks.  Because she still misses us and online doesn’t feel the same. Gray haired, grandmothers, retired, we are still active, vital women doing good work in the world. We try new things. We ate quiche. And we talked for two hours, just like always.


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10 thoughts on “Quiche and Old Friends

  1. I also appreciate the camaraderie of good friends getting together to discuss common interests and lifestyles. I have a group that used to be co-workers and we are the only ones who share the same interest and memories of how that past life affected us. I have friends that shared the same neighborhood together and remember the stories of raising our children there. There is also that best friend I have known since grade school. We have the background of being raised in the same environment, on the same street and attended the same schools but can also discuss our years of raising children and discussing how they’re doing raising our grandchildren as we also experience traveling together and enjoying retirement experiences together! These various reunions always leave me feeling happy and fortunate!

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    1. How cool that you have friends who were co-workers. I have two! And you just reminded me of the friends from grade school. Don’t get to see them often but they soothe the heart, don’t they?


  2. Ah yes, old friends are priceless. I had an opportunity yesterday to spend time with two of mine. One has been a friend for over 40 years, the other for around 30. There’s just something about kindred spirits who have been with you through many changes in life—no need to explain anything, just rich and irreplaceable friendship.

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  3. I cherish my “old” friends, or as I like to say, friends for a long time! We know so much of each other’s histories, we can just pick up where we left off. It’s difficult to find time to connect with friends- but so worth the effort!

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  4. We don’t get together often because friends went separate ways over the years, but when we get together once a year we catch up, talk for hours about everything and anything, eat and enjoy lots of wine!

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